Ok, so the logistics of getting us all speaking Hungarian is not going to be easy and once again I've had to re-evaluate how it's going to work. 'm beginning to doubt if bilingual is possible but certainly learning some to get by will be.
I took d to the language class last week as hubby needed a break and s was unwell.They stayed at home. It was our first class and within five minutes it was obvious that it was too advanced for her. well, it is an adult class that had started a few months ago. I could just about keep up with the basics I had, so she had no chance. But dutifully she stayed the whole 2 hours.
So, the new plan. I will go to the Hungarian class myself - one lifelong ambition realised? - check. Finally, I can't believe it.
D & S are going to have lessons at home each week. Hopefully in April the Hungarian group is starting a children's class for beginners which d could join. S will have to wait until he is 6 but we could continue with lessons at home for him till then. Hubby will learn if he wants to but will have to organise his own way, with us all helping him.
So, there we are all sorted. for now. In about a year and a half we will actually all be ready to attend the Hungarian group as a family, but until then we'll need to master more of the language.